Well this is how I got the Tobii eyex controller to work.
After thinking that it was my usb 3.0 drivers and ports and also windows drivers.
And a few in stalls of the tobii software. I uninstalled all software for the device and took the setup.exe and unpacked it using WinRAR to a folder and clicked on each msi file and installed the files myself.
BOOM!! what do ya know it works. So the problem is in the installer from Tobii not installing drivers for the Controller.
THANKS ALOT FOR THE SUPPORT!!!!!!